Of all of the things I would never have expected to be in short supply is this: Condolence cards. No kidding! So I went digging.
The Greeting Card Association reports that one should have cards on hand because they are a way to express your sympathy and sorrow, acknowledging this event without really doing anything. Like jumping on a plane and going to the funeral, if any. You have done your part with a tasteful card.
Tasteful to mean your handwritten note inside the card does not start "So - how much did the old bastard leave you anyhow?"
Europe was slow to get in on this card business. I can speak for the French when I report that the cards sold today are only for New Year's or one's saint's day - not birthday cards to an individual. Few were sold in 1971, but by 2006 sales had picked up considerably.
Same source - Greeting Card Assoc. Women buy more condolence cards and/or flowers than men. Their nurturing nature is thought to be the reason. Never mind the witches you may know.
Here is a sort of all-purpose message written by (no kidding) Helen Keller:
"What was once enjoyed and deeply loved, we can never lose. For, all that we deeply love becomes a part of us."
I don't think you'd send a card to a chocolate cake, but her description fits a helluva lot of things.
Maybe send it to Alcoholics Anonymous for a sort of secondary Serenity Prayer?
Oh, and while card shopping - just to have a stock on hand - don't forget your friends' pets. Yes, cards are now on the market for the demise of our furry/feathered/finned friends. And commerce rolls on. Get your billfold out.
Saturday, May 2, 2020
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